Melanie

So you get invited around to someones house, you get ready (which is hard work when there is one and a half of you to get ready), you drive over there (getting lost on the way because you once again take the wrong road off the Royal Oak roundabout), you get there, you knock on the door and nobody answers.
So you wait.
You knock again and still nobody answers.
So you decide to go visit a different friend, you have a nice little catch-up and then you come home.
You email the first friend with “I came over but nobody answered the door ”
They reply “well mel we were home all morning and every one else came in and had mornig tea so dont know what happened there as there was some one home all morning long”

Now, to me that comes across as quite rude as there was no answer at the door!!!!!!!!!!!!!
So why am I made to feel like a bad person?